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Just *Some* Things That Make Me Smile….| In Photos

October 24, 2010 By Laura 4 Comments


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I’m always taking random photos, that I love to have because they made me smile. But they wouldn’t necessarily make a whole post.  So I thought I’d try putting them in bunches sometimes, and doing a post now and then, about some of these little things that make me smile. Then I may happen to throw in a couple of others too, that were not random photos, but do indeed make me smile anyway.

Just a photo-happy little post.

So here are just some things, that make me smile……

birthday-pancake This beautiful pancake my husband and kiddos surprised me with on the morning of my birthday, even though they knew I would never eat it in a million years.  They made it anyway, because ‘number breakfasts’ are a tradition in our home on birthdays, and they can’t let the tradition go, even on my day.  I’m not big on eating much in the morning. That is chocolate frosting they worked with there, by the way. (In the morning?).

This pancake masterpiece sat in the fridge for about…well, the million years.

And then Michael ate it.  Really.

I know.
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0021 ….How happy my kids are, whenever they can spend time with their Papa.

Or maybe it’s, ….how happy my father is, whenever he can spend time with his grandkids.

Basically, it works both ways.

And it all makes me smile, because I love them all, and I love to see them all happy.

Anytime. All of the time.
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….over apple-cinnamon tea, and banana bread.
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kitchen-aid-mixer My Kitchen Aid Mixer.  And it’s Sender. <3  You just had to have known that was coming.

And oh yes…..we’ve used it lots already.  You’ll be seeing!
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How silly my boy gets.  Every day. He’s a clown, for sure.
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Or is it hand and a glove?

Well, you know what I mean.

We belong together.
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My God-Daughter. Ohhhh the smiles she has caused on my face.  Her expressions of love for me have made me cry, 100 times over.  Can you even get over the freckles?  When I see her, I try to kiss every one.
She’s so precious to me.
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homeschooled-siblings Our Autumn family hikes.   The crispness in the air, the crunching of leaves under our feet, appreciating the beauty all around us, that confusing scent in the air (….Old leaves? Or dog poo nearby?….lol)….and just chatting, laughing, and being together, going nowhere in particular.

These are just *some* of the things that make me smile.
I encourage you to ponder the things that make you smile, too. And if you can, take photos of those things! They’ll make you re-smile in later years, when you find them.

Thanks for the visit today, Friends.

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Surprise Destination – Martha’s Vineyard | Continuation of Triplets’ Birthday

September 29, 2010 By Laura 10 Comments

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Continuing sharing the triplet’s 8th birthday here.  Get ready for a whole lot of photos! (Let them all load before scrolling like crazy, ok?)

Following a birthday kick off at home in the morning (as posted in ‘They 8 and 8 and 8’…), we had big plans for the rest of the day!  Well, you know, big in our world.  It was going to be a great surprise for the kids. A whole new adventure, and I knew they would excitedly enjoy every second of.

But first, believe it or not, we had to deliver our home schooling package to the town, as this day was the deadline! Ugh. The office was in the complete and distant opposite direction of our adventure, so it was a mad rush, as we had transportation to catch!

In our travels, the kids tried to guess what we were doing, and eventually voted that they wanted to know, so they could be excited on the way. So I told them.

(Imagine the announcement here, Oprah-style:

“We’re going to Martha’s Vineyard!!” “We’re going to Martha’s Vineyard!!”   “We’re going to Martha’s Vineyard!!” “We’re going to Martha’s Vineyard!!” “We’re going to Martha’s Vineyard!!” “We’re going to Martha’s Vineyard!!”

Ok enough.  They were about as excited as that audience too!!  And no, I don’t really watch Oprah much.  But is there anyone in the world, who hasn’t seen that clip?)

Sometimes, knowing what you are about to do is half the fun! They chatted excitedly the rest of the way, all the way to………

marthas-vineyard … the Island Queen Ferry. We were indeed going to Martha’s Vineyard!

It was about as close to (and as exciting as)  a cruise ship experience, that we were ever likely to have.

You’d think, where we live, we would have been to Martha’s Vineyard by now, if not 100 times.  But we hadn’t.  I think I do recall going as a kid with my family, though.  But not since.  Have you been?  If not, you can ‘come along with us’ through these photos. And if you have, you’ll know it’s well worth the re-visit!

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marthas-vineyard-2 The sea was so calm that day, and the temps were mildly warm…..perfect for a nice cruise, and a beautiful day on the island.

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They stood a lot of the time.  They didn’t want to miss a thing.

A few days later, someone asked {S} if he saw any dolphins or whales out there, and he said,
“No.  All I saw was a dead bass, and a jelly fish.”

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This mother’s heart gushed at the sweet sight of this.
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Pulling into port!!

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A little welcome from the shores.
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An Osprey nest, perhaps?
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We got walking on the island, and every where I turned around, there were fun photos to take.  Who’s birthday was it, anyway?

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Looking at the pamphlets available, there was one ‘must see’ that jumped out to us, and we were on a mission to find it.
(Dropping in on little shops as we went along of course.)

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We found it!!

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I can tell you, it was hot as hell in this old wood structure.  (Or so I would imagine.  Hopefully I’ll never know, for sure.)  You could literally smell the warm wood.  And believe it or not, so dark in there I had difficulty taking (good) photos. But it was so charming anyway!

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The coolest thing about this carousel, was trying to get the brass ring, as the carousel went around.    These next 2 photos are awful, and you’ll need to look carefully to see what I am talking about.  But, do you see that thing {JM} and {A} are reaching towards?  That’s a metal ring dispenser.

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You could try and grab one out of the dispenser, every time you went by.

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Most every ring was silver.  But the one who got the ‘brass ring’, got a free ride!!  It really added such a fun element to the whole carousel experience.  There was also a dispenser on the inside of the carousel.

None of our kids got the brass ring.  But hey…they are lucky enough, right?

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More strolling around, just enjoying all of the charming little shoppes and restaurants.

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This place looked like fun!

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Just a quick glance around, told me this place had some great games to play!  And none of the smutty and/or violent animated graphics I deem inappropriate for my little one’s eyes.

marthas-vineyard-20 But nothing in this amusement arcade place, was more exciting than the site of PLINKO!!  Seriously??  I could not have been more excited!!  That was always my favorite game on the Price Is Right.  We were good at it too!

I was busy playing myself, and not taking as many photos in here.

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Racking up the tickets!
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Oh what to get……decisions, decisions.
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I am sure all of you parents out there, know how long this can take.  Have mercy!
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In the end, they all happened to settle on ‘silly bands’.   It’s their first ones, believe it or not.  I don’t think I’ve seen anyone wear them more than once or twice, since.   But they sure do like to collect stuff~ Oh my gosh, do they ever. (All of them.  Trust me!)
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There are a lot of great signs at Martha’s Vineyard.   Being in the sign business, we really notice and appreciatethese things.  For anyone reading and not aware of these things, a sign is one of the top most important elements of your storefront business.  It’s a first impression.  It’s creates all kinds of sub-conscious messages about your business, and it definitely effects the flow of people that come in your door.  Or not.

This sign, Sharky’s Cantina, drew us in.  It was just a great sign.  Well laid out, fun, high quality.  So it gave those same impressions of the establishment as a whole, too.

The margarita might have been calling me in also.

But……there was just no room for us in there. It looked like a great place, but it was small, and packed with people. (Because of the sign. no doubt. ; )  See? ) We sat at a teeny-tiny table, in the very back corner, and I immediately felt trapped. Need-to-get-OUT!!  I guess ‘Cantina’ was a clue there.  But I was hyper-focused on the, well maybe the margarita.  We had to find somewhere else to eat.

As we looked for somewhere else, we happened to look down a pathway, that really, really drew us in.  As hungry as we were.…..

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Walking through these gates, was seriously like walking straight into another world.  Martha’s Vineyard as a whole, is pretty peaceful.  But this…..this place….offered an indescribable feeling.  All we could hear, were our own soft steps on the sidewalk, and the occasional tweeting of birds.  As we walked along, I had to look back behind me to the gate I had just walked through, trying to figure out what just happened.

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marthas-vineyard-32 The little walkway, led to a street lined with the quaintest little homes, that all seemed to surround a big green.   Just looking down the little street, with the row of little houses, almost dumbfounded me.  I almost felt like I was in Mr. Roger’s Neighborhood.  Can you imagine that?  I really wanted to go there, as a child.

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This is the green that the we came upon, surrounded.  What you see there in the center of the green is what is known as ‘The Tabernacle.’  We had to check it out.

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It definitely had elements of a place of worship. It seemed like such a lovely place, to hold an outdoor Mass.

(To us, because we’re Catholic.)

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As I looked around, I think I said, “This place is so cool, ” 20 times.

But it really was!!

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One of the kids took note of the banner sign hanging, and read it out loud:

“Surely the Presence of the Lord is in this Place.”

Yes, surely. It seemed to us, that the ‘presence of the Lord’ was all over Martha’s Vineyard!  The beauty of it all….how could one not feel God everywhere?

But, we didn’t see ‘the Tabernacle’ as us Catholics best know it. And thus, ‘the presence of the Lord’ as we know it, either.

Still, it was cool!  And I did feel Him everywhere, all day.

I guess concerts and such are held there.  I got the impression, some non-denominational celebrations as well.

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Over yonder, from ‘the Tabernacle’ looked like what might be a Catholic Church.  But the family was all talking about their ‘bellies grabbling’, and they all wanted to eat.  We all needed to, really.

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So we continued on our quest for a restaurant, which really got to be quite the task!  There were little places around, but by this point in the day, I really wanted the kids to eat some ‘real food’, as I like to call it. (In other words…healthy.)  Time was ticking, we were all dragging by now, and pretty warm too!  When finally, we settled on an Italian Restaurant.  By the time we got in, got a table, and ordered, we were in a slight panic waiting for the food, worried we would miss the last ferry at 6:45, to home-land!  So we were scoffing down our meals by the time we got our food.  Can you imagine missing the last ferry of the day?  An overnight at MV was not at all in the budget, and we had nothing with us!

Can I just say, Fettuccine Alfredo is not easy to eat quickly!

Nor is high-tailing it to the ferry with a belly full of it!

(The fettuccine was what I ordered.  The kids made healthier choices on their own, thankfully.)

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I just had to grab a shot of this place.  It’s an Inn.  Michael knows some folks who stay there every year.

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See?  No heavy fettuccine in those bellies.  “Hey, wait for me!!”

We did make it to the ferry in plenty of time.  We ended up sitting and waiting for it.  But we were happy to just sit, and chill.  No rush anymore.  Just a sweet evening ferry ride for us all, at dusk.   SO BEAUTIFUL!   The cool evening breeze……the smell of the sea…..the colors in the sky…….God everywhere, still.  Not to mention our beautiful children, I was especially, especially thankful for on this day.

So….I took lots more photos on the ferry ride home.  And that, my friends, will be the final Trio Birthday post, coming up next.  You just have to see how perfect it all was.

Now tell me, have you ever been to Martha’s Vineyard?  Once?  Many times?  For a day or an extended stay?  Recently or a long, long time ago?  As I said, I think I had been as a child.  Michael never had.  Nor our kids, of course.

But we’ll all be going back.

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They 8, and 8, and 8… | The Triplets Turn 8!

September 21, 2010 By Laura 4 Comments

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As many of you know, our trio babies had yet another birthday at the end of August, and they turned 8.

EIGHT!!

I really wish they would knock it off. :\

You know.  The whole growing and growing and getting another year older thing.

I think it’s the food?

They eat a lot!! More than me. They love to eat. And eat. And eat.

And then they get bigger, and older, and smarter.

It seems to be a phenomenon of some sort.

I just wish they would stay little babies.

But, we always love a reason to celebrate!

And x3 is even better!

Which brings me to my excuse about all of the photos coming.   Well you all know how many photos you take on your child’s birthday; with the cake, and the gifts or party, and what have you.  So imagine having 3 to celebrate on the same day.  My shutter finger is plum-tuckered-out by the end of the day!  But it sure is fun!  Anyway, I tried to be easy on you, and make some composites, so your scrolling finger didn’t get plum-tuckered out too.  I also am diving up their birthday posts, so this is only the first post on their birthday, which may not be all that exciting, for you.  But oh how it all was for them.


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If you’ve been coming around here long enough, by now you know that a birthday-number breakfast just comes with the birth-day.   It’s Daddy’s specialty.

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They love pancakes.  They had way more than their number.  😉 They had like…8 pancakes after they ate their number. And sausages. And juice.

triplets-birthday-2 They never ask for a thing for their birthday, except a balloon.    At one point or another, each one of them says, “Do you think I can get a balloon on my birthday?”

It’s the least we can do.

But we do a little more.  We’re simple people, but come on.  Everyone deserves surprises on their birthday.

I can’t tell you how perfect these little kits were for each of them.  They were thrilled. And have gotten a whole lot of fun out of them since. triplets-birthday-3 triplets-birthday-4 triplets-birthday-5 triplets-birthday-6

Big sister had surprise gifts for them too.  A little something she bought for each of them.  Then, she also gave them her big Magnetix kit from when she was their age, that they have wanted so badly. (So, like a Yankee gift. Lol)  She was so sweet, because we had no clue she had any of this stuff for them.   She loves planning surprises.

We totally lucked out with the cake thing this year!   They all really wanted the same kind of cake.  “Coffee cake”, as they call it.  It’s cinnamon struesel.

I resisted asking them, “Nothing with chocolate??  Are you sure?”

“PLEEEEASE!!?? ANYONE? “

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It’s so easy to make these 3 happy.    We could have been done right there.  But……we had so much more in store for them for their special day.  A big surprise we knew would really make their 8th birthday very memorable.

It’s all coming up, right here.

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{A} Goes to Witness 2 Hope | Catholic Middle School Retreat

August 23, 2010 By Laura 4 Comments

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At last, I have gotten it all together enough, to share with you all a little bit about the purpose behind our prayer request for {A} a couple of weeks ago. We understand that some of you may not view it as that big of a deal, but for us, it was big.  So we are thankful for your prayers if you prayed. They went a long way for us!

So here’s the whole scoop, for those who have been waiting:

In early July, when we were on the show This Is The day, there was a young man and woman there also as show guests, named Steven Colella and Danielle Olsen, from The New Evangelization of the Archdiocese of Boston, to promote a new program for middle schoolers, called  Witness 2 Hope. A similar program for high schoolers, called Witness 2 Truth, had already been established and had been effective.  They decided that instilling such leadership qualities in young people even sooner than high school, would be beneficial, and that is naturally the truth.

So after our segment of the show, and having listened to {A} speak about her faith, they approached us and encouraged her to attend Witness 2 Hope. It did sound like a great program, and we were glad to hear such efforts were being made with our young people today. However, at the time we just did not consider it very seriously for {A}, because the 4 day program was quite a distance away from where we lived, costed more than we could really afford at the time, and also, {A} had only just turned 13. Quite honestly, she has not had much interest in her young life, in being very far from her family, for days at a time. So, it was not something we really thought about very long.

However, a few weeks ago they contacted us again, hoping we/she would reconsider.  They really just felt that she would be a good witness to others at the program. And then, they offered us a full scholarship, to go. After really looking into it more, {A} decided it was really something she wanted to go to. So then I, as her mother, addressed all of my concerns and questions with Steven Colella, as her mother.  He was extremely gracious and more than happy to answer every last one, with detail and re-assurance. So we decided she’d be going, and got packing.  She was VERY EXCITED, and grew more so as the time drew near to go.

That is really the bulk of most of your reading in this post.  So bare with me!  The rest is just photos and short explanations.
** Please note that all of the photos with the black outline are images by George Martel, photographer of the Archdiocese of Boston. The rest were taken by me.

witness-2-hope-2010-1 The weekend was Thursday August 12- Sunday August 15th.    We drove her, and stopped for a bagel on the way since it was a long way, and through our normal lunch time. The triplets were a little clingy, and didn’t want her to go! (And I knew exactly how they were feeling.)

witness-2-hope-2010-2 The weekend was held here, at St. Thecla’s Retreat House, in Billerica, MA.  It was a beautiful place, inside and out.  When I was younger, I often contemplated and dreamed about living a secluded life as a nun, at a place like this. A quiet prayer life really does speak to me. As much as I love my life with my family, deeply, and know it is my vocation, I still dream about places like this sometimes.  I wanted to stay with {A}. lol  I knew she was going to have a great, uplifting weekend.

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We brought her in, got her registered, a got her settled in her little room, and said our goodbyes!  Not easy, Folks!  Certainly not for me.

There were 25 middle schoolers attending. The purpose of the program was to build up real leadership skills, teach them to be able to communicate well with people in a group, work well together in creating plans of action, and accomplishing tasks that make a difference in their community, or beyond.

We learned that over the course of the weekends, there were many workshops, assignments, games to demonstrate why the skills they were learning were important, as well as mass, Adoration, and praise and worship.  And a lot of fun!!  {A} finally saw the movie, the Chronicles of Narnia, which was SO exciting to her, since she has read the whole entire series, many times over.  She loved the movie, which they watched outdoors at night, in the courtyard!

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On Sunday when the families came, each small group had presentations for us, that showed their demonstration of carrying out a Corporal Work of Mercy.  {A}’s group chose ‘clothing the naked’, and they explained and showed their plan, of how they could help with that ministry.

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Here is {A} with her small group that she worked closely with through parts of the weekend.
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Fr. Matt.  He gave a passionate sermon at the closing mass we all attended.  Really great, full of profound points, and humor. He is really great with the young people. I could see they really connected with him, and why.
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Praise and worship at Mass.  The music was awesome!  I love praisin’ and worshippin’.  It was all I could do not to run up there and join them.  But I stayed in my pew, and just rocked out there.

See, I do have control of my little self, sometimes.

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This is Steve Colella and Danielle Olsen.  They designed this whole program for the middle schoolers, as well as the Witness 2 Truth program that is in it’s 2nd year, for high schoolers.  They are a great team!
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I’m going to try not, to go on and on about this boy.   But, he could have been mine!! He was adopted by his family from Russia. He stood out to me, right away, because he just carries out such an air of happiness and light.  At one point at the closing, we were all in the chapel, waiting for mass to begin.  He was in the front row, and I saw him turn around to talk to the kids behind him.  {A} was 2 pews behind him, and when he caught glimpse of her, he just popped up and reached through the kids, outstretching his hand, for {A} to touch his. <sniff>.  If you just could have seen it….honestly, it was just the sweetest most spontaneous thing. When {A} told me he was adopted, I immediately thought “Darn!  I had an opportunity, and I blew it!”.  I seriously wanted to take him home.  But I am sure his family really wants to keep him.He is another she’ll be keeping in touch with. He is just…..I loved him.
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The whole Witness 2 Hope Team.  They all had such a great time together, and {A} came home with more friends, more skills, and more experience.
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She had such a good time, and she was really happy she went.
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All of the kids got a t-shirt from the weekend, and this is on the back of it.  It was sort of ironic.

{A} has ALWAYS spoke of this quote by Pope John Paul II, and pondered what she could do, in her own big or small way, to help bring his dream to light.  So it was not only ironic that the shirts quoted JPII, but it shows you how much this program was right up her alley!

It was a great weekend, and a new milestone for all of us as a family.  One that will present itself more and more as time goes on.  But for this Sunday, we were happy to pick up our girl, and bring her home with us again!

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We stopped to celebrate on the way home, with a wonderful Mexican meal at this restaurant, Margarita’s.  While we gather around the table as a family every evening, we had a new appreciation and gratitude this day, of being all together again.

Thanks again for the prayers!  They helped us a lot!

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Beatrice. She’s Really Been Around the Block. | The Story of a Doll

August 14, 2010 By Laura 2 Comments

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{A} was just a toddler, barely walking, when my mother called one day a few months before Christmas.  She said, “I am shopping for gifts in this catalog, and I am going to buy {A} a baby doll.  Do you want the white one, or the black one?”

Those were her words.

Several things ran through my head.  ‘Why would she call me, to ask me this?  Is she testing me, in some way?  Does she think it really matters to me, which one she gets?’

But I said none of those things.  Instead, my focus turned to my own parenting.  I was a first time mother, and I already had a long list of  what I would and would not do, teach and would not teach, my kids, as God gave them to me.  I was a confident parent from the get-go, much to the unnerving of, well, certain people.  I did indeed know a whole lot about kids, how to care for babies, desirable and undesirable behavior in growing kids, and where they come from sometimes, all learned in depth through very tender ages myself, of caring for/all-but raising, children belonging other parents.  But that is a whole other topic I won’t digress into.   The point is, I was thinking, “My kids will be raised to never discriminate against people because of the color of their skin, among other things. It shouldn’t even be a thought. God made us all the same, and we are as equal as we are in His eyes.”   But I had to answer, so I responded, “The black one is fine.”

I know what you are thinking.  I think.  Maybe not.  But, if you are…..I suppose by ‘choosing’, I was discriminating in some way.  But what I was thinking was, ‘This an an opportunity, here.  {A} will undoubtedly fall right in love with this doll without hesitation or thought, and she will learn quite early on, in this early lesson in her life, that love knows no color.  Or perhaps better, love knows all colors.”.

Previously, {A} never did care much for toy dolls at all, through her childhood.   But for some reason she did indeed love this one, from the day she opened her Christmas gift, from Meme and Papa.  It was SO soft. Stuffed with cotton and squishy. A little odd shaped, perhaps.  There was a rattle inside.  {A} was quickly more than partial to it.

Then came the dilemma of course.  What to name her baby doll?   {A}, of course, was just barely talking.  I was helping her figure lots of things out, at that age.  So I thought of who gave it to her.  And a perfect name occurred to me, as I chuckled more than was kind, on the inside.  “ How about we name her “Beatrice” ?“, I asked {A}.   “Beee-tissss”, {A} repeated with her usual big smile.   And so it was.

When my mother visited again, she asked {A}, as she toddled around with her new doll, what her name was.  It was all I could do, not to bust out laughing, while {A} responded, “Beeee-tisss”.

The look on my mother’s face, was priceless.   You see, Beatrice, was my mother’s middle name, that she has always hated.  As I read my mother’s expression in that moment, I knew she was rather torn somewhere between irked, and pleased that the dolly was named after her

For me, it was just FUN to name her Beatrice, yes, in a humorously teasing sort of way.  Out of love.  You know.  I truly had no idea, how long Beatrice would be around.

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This is a scanned scrap booking page of {A} I did years and years ago, with photos just as old.  Obviously before I mastered flash.   Oh how hard it is to see these things now.  But naturally I still treasure the photos.  What I wanted to show you here, in particular though, was {A} in the bottom left photo.  She is wearing her Daddy’s sweatshirt, and carrying her beloved Beatrice.

{A} carried Beatrice all around the house, and slept with her every night.  Along with the nightie I used to nurse her in, that, as she grew older, she had me wear again after being washed, to make it smell like me again.

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More scanned photos:  When {O} came along, (with her triplet brothers of course), {A} gave her Beatrice.  {O} began to sleep with her right away, too.  She’s always used her as a pillow.  Here they all are together (above), having a couch cuddle.   I thought it was sweet that {A} passed on her beloved doll, to her baby sister.

{A} held fast to that nightie, though, which she still sleeps with today.

04_little-girl-reading-to-dolll {O} developed her own special and deepening relationship with Beatrice, as she grew.   They read together.
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She made sure Beatrice had other friends too.
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Year after year, Beatrice was still around.

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And it’s really begun to show!!  I just took these photos of her the other day. {O} was caught more than once as a toddler, biting/sucking on Beatrice’s nubby little clothe thumbs in bed.  Soon those were amputated and sewed up.

But check out those healthy hips on her!

It almost makes me feel a kindred spirit with her.

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Most recently, a huge hole in her face, was mended.  She’s Beatrice Scar Face now.  There are other questionable dark marks, we won’t wonder too long about.

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The wear and tear is showing everywhere, on poor Beatrice.

I am sure being washed, as much as she has been, has shown her years too.

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But I think being loved, as much as she has, is the most evident.

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After all she has been through, she still has a faint smile.

I think in our own ways, we should all be able to reflect how loved we have been in our lives through the many years, as well.

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