Yes. Here I am talking about Basketball and such already and the new season has not even begun yet! But honestly, you DO want to bear with me. Today there’s a whole new spin to the perspectives and purpose of this post. I’d love for you all to give it a read, and then join in with your thoughts & experiences, regarding your kid’s sports. In the end, you and I can both win. ; )
Growing up as a kid, I was never really involved in any kind of organized sports. Neither was my husband, in his childhood. Sometimes as a kid, in my free time, I played tennis against the school wall down the street, or my brothers and I played basketball in the drive way. It was more of the ‘Around the World’ type of basketball, rather than any real 1-on-1. The only ones who took a beating, were the Hosta plants that lined the single lane driveway! I have memories of my Dad pitching a wiffle ball to me too, because I really loved to hit, and I wasn’t half bad! He’d even go get the ball, only to pitch it to me again, over and over. But that was the extent of my sports. I was really more of the artist type. I spent most of my time drawing, painting, and (closet) singing, right through high school. Going to art school was my plan right from Kindergarten, and when I graduated from high school, that’s just what I did.
So no one was more surprised than I was, to find I was going to be ‘one of those sports moms’. You know the kind. The ones who are always on the sidelines, really into the game, screaming her head off the whole time? That would be me.
I remember the day I realized it too. Things had just begun in that little school gym, where I had brought my daughter {A}, and I immediately found myself out of my seat, hootin’, hollarin’, cheering, and shouting out instructional tips. I was all hyped up with excitement and adrenaline, and apparently making a little scene, because the coaches and all of the kids, kept looking at me with an amused expression. Maybe, because it was just the first practice of this basketball season, for my first child’s, first practice, and first sport, ever. I was the one and only spectator there, as all of the other parents had dropped their kids off.
(2006)
That was six years ago, when {A} was just 8 years old. It was the beginning of a whole new experience, for all of us, as a family. The first reward we found in sports, was that it was another activity we enjoyed together. She really loved playing, and you could always find the other 5 of the 6 of us in the bleachers, cheering her and her team on. Her little siblings were a cheer section of their own! Her Dad commentated quietly, often explaining to me what he thought just happened. And then there was me; the loudest of us all.
(2007)
We never doubted {A} would have a good time playing on a team. She was always that kind of kid, who had fun no matter what she was doing. She was a ‘people person’, who approached and befriended others easily. You know, very SOCIAL, even though she was a home schooled kid. 😉 To this day, people ask us if she is ever not smiling. But I’d always taught her, it was important to do her best, no matter what. I never followed the line of thinking with sports, that ‘as long as we have fun, that’s what matters.’ No!! We’re here to WIN!! Aren’t we? It’s great to enjoy it, but her team was counting on her to give it all she had, and so was I. She was probably an average player to start, being new not only to the game, but a year late into it, as opposed to her other girls who played the year prior. But, she was well-liked, and committed to her team. Her biggest downfall was her heart on the court; she felt bad taking the ball away from even a player on the opposing team. ; ) We had a few chats about that, but otherwise, it was a great first and second season for her, as she learned the rules, in and outs of the game, through weekly practices and games. We all learned along with her, listening to instruction, and those ear-piercing whistle blows.
She was still working on refining all of her skills. Especially with her new physical self; she had grown 5 inches in the past year!
As she got a little older, we saw things start to change in her a little bit. She was getting on the other side of that awkward growth spurt. She was all knees and elbows, for a bit there. She had learned a lot more about the game, and so did we. Basketball had become a regular part of our lives, every cold season, as we got her to her practices, and watched more intently than ever, at her games. She was practicing off the court more, her focus was better, her determination was stronger, and all of the skills she had acquired were starting to come together. I was enjoying seeing her thrive, and had become more maniacal than ever, at her games. For perspective, I often leave a game with a throat that is torn up, and a new hair-do. ; )
She was still her happy-go-lucky self. But she was more serious about every game. We started having post-game talks on the way home, about the great plays, or ones she could have done better or differently.
(2010)
Then we hit a real milestone. One might call it a ‘game changer’. As more serious as she was about the game, she was still used to being on friendly terms with every coach she had had. One they all could joke with, and have fun. But this new coach this one year, was alllll business. He wasn’t there to make friends, or waste his time. She didn’t like how he didn’t have a light-humored side. She didn’t like how he demanded the girls do things a very certain and different way. His way, as she saw it. She didn’t like that he was yelling angrily out onto the court at the girls, by name. (including his own daughter.) She didn’t like a lot of things about this year. He drove the girls, hard. And he rubbed her sunny-disposition, the wrong way.
But I thought this coach this particular year, was a great thing, and I told her why: Because it was a perfect lesson on LIFE. She was going to get a job someday, and not necessarily like how her boss does things. Or even her BOSS, for that matter. But she’d still need to do her job, follow instructions, be a team player, and respect the authority. Yes, when the time was right, she could re-evaluate things, and choose to seek a new job, more to her liking. But she had to complete the project she was committed to, just as she had to stay on this team and play the year out, just as she had committed to. It was going to be good for her, to work with someone she found very difficult. It would help develop her character; teaching her the skills of tolerance, patience, obedience, and strength. She’d need to adjust. It would be a rough road for her, and I had every intention of being there for her, with some tough love. But she had to push herself through it.
She stuck the year out. Not always happily, especially in the beginning. But she learned to deal with it all quickly. She learned to relate to the coach, on his terms. And I was right. By year’s end, she was a new player. She had grown so much, as a person, had new found skills, and had developed in so many ways, more than she ever had, more a than any other year. Through the difficult year, both physically and mentally, she had changed a lot. By leaps and bounds. She had gained stamina, and a more mature perspective. She found her drive. She had found her aggression, in a big way, on the court! She was going for that ball, no matter who on the opposing team had it, and she would fight to hold onto it to the floor. She wasn’t one to mess with, anymore.
She had become a real athlete.
And when the last game that year had just been played, she was the only girl who went up to her coach, and said, “Thank you, for coaching me all year. I learned a lot from you.”
As a sports mom, I had become concerned about more than just getting her here and there, or where ever she needed to be. I had learned how to give her all she needed, as an athlete. I wanted to be sure she always had the energy and hydration, come practice or game time. That meant making sure she always ate right, and ate the right things, at the right times. And to keep the fluids going down. I wanted to make sure I kept her strong, and healthy! An injury was the last thing I wanted for her.
Basketball was the sport she’d always been involved with. But she’d learned to throw a mean football, at 5 years old. It was something she and her Daddy did a lot in the yard. Of course the older and bigger she got, the better she became. On the court, old basketball coaches could not even believe how tall she had gotten. There was a 2 year span where she had grown a total of 8 1/2 inches! That was really helping her game. But she was also growing more and more interested in football. She loved watching the games on tv, and was intent on playing Flag Football. One clinic with Coach Greg, and she was hooked.
(2011)
Her last year on the town’s team, was an incredible one for her.
(2011)
She was so sad to have outgrown the league, but she went out with a bang!
She had come a long, long way, in the 6 years she had played. She worked hard with the basketball, even off the court, developing skills you don’t often see in a player that age. Never mind a girl. She had learned to dribble with her knees! She was passionate about basketball, and it showed. Especially to those who noticed these things.
She was encouraged by current and former coaches, to go for the public South High School team. She wanted to play for them, badly. And so I had every intention of being sure she had that chance to play for them, even though she was home schooled. I understood she’d have to pass try-outs. But I had heard making the team, or actually playing, could be…challenging, for home schoolers. I’d cross that bridge when I got to it, if it ever proved to be a problem.
But that time was not here yet. She had her heart set on making it onto the town’s spring Flag Football league, before she grew out of the age range.
Of course, she had to make the team, first. And that she did. Her former coach (Greg) knew her the second she walked into the try-outs, and her place on a team was practically automatic. ALL of the coaches were there to observe, taking notes for drafting the players they wanted. The most unlikeliest of coaches drafted her first, based on observing the reaction of Coach Greg when she walked in, and then watching her tryout.
She played, and was the only girl in the whole league! She wasn’t treated any differently than the boys. And she didn’t play any differently, either. She was an unexpected force to be reckoned with. She was passionate about Flag Football now, too. She just loved playing the game. And it showed.
(2011)
Just as with Basketball, we were on the sidenlines, making some noise, for her and her team! As if my big long camera lens didn’t draw enough attention to myself, screaming my head off half the time did! I just couldn’t help myself. Michael and I had a game, to see how long I could be quiet. The excitement and anticipation at times, was more than I could contain. We found sports to be a rush like no other. I had felt my own competitive streak come alive that very first practice she had, at 8 years old, and it was clearly in her blood too. She helped take her Flag Football team all the way to the Superbowl, where they lost by 1-single-point! It was a hard pill to swallow. It was a fluke, actually! But we were busy digging up the grace we needed, to be good sports about it. ; )
(2011)
After all, she had to be a good example, to her biggest little triplet fans, who were so very inspired by their big sister.
She was a STAR, in their eyes, and about to try making a mark of their own, in sports.
(2011)
High School Basketball is a few months away yet, but I had started making contact with the powers that be, real early, and she found herself at a Volleyball clinic twice a week, at the public South High School. She quickly fell in love with this sport too, and they quickly took notice of her. It was nothing short of boot camp. But she kept going back, and they were impressed she did, and were happy to see her. Her potential coach said to us, “The biggest sign of a true athlete, is not just skills, but being tough. And she IS. She’s got that.”
Try-outs for the public South High School Volleyball team are coming up, and she’ll be there ready to show her stuff. She’s been training on her own. I can say it’s looking promising, and a very busy year, with 3 kids in sports anyway. Maybe 4.
(2011)
{A} has her dreams and goals, short & long term, and she’ll always work hard to reach them. She has high standards for herself, anyway.
But even if she didn’t, she always has me to push her. ; )
To me, being so involved in sports, and having such passions for it, has proved to be full of benefits, skills, and gifts, and a truly effective way to pave the way, to play the game of life! If sports doesn’t literally take {A} where she wants to go, it will certainly have given her all she needs on the inside, to get there on her own.
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Kids learn to work as a team which will be important in the workplace.
It teaches them teamwork and cooperation.
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No kids, but I believe that it should be fun to do sports.
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Sports teach kids how to work as a team, how to win graciously and lose graciously, and how to have fun while being active.
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SPorts of all kinds are so important. They build self esteem and teach to be competitive
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I wish my parents had me in sports, while growing up….
I dont have any kids, but when I do, I am putting them in team sports so get them active and know what its like to be part of a team 🙂
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It’s important for your kids to learn to be part of a team. What better way, than in sports!
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Sports definitely teach kids the value of teamwork, strength, perseverance, communication skills, anger management, and poise under pressure, all of which are skills that they can get a lot of use out of in their professional and personal lives as they get older!
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playing sports is teaching my kids how to get along with all types of people and therefore helping them in life
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I believe sports teach you just about everything you need to know for life. If you don’t practice, you don’t play. You can’t just want in and get everything handed to you, you have to earn it, or it isn’t worth it. Always be a good sport. If you win, don’t brag about it. Shake your opponents hand. If you lose, don’t cry about it. Shake your opponents hand, and like they say, there is no “I” in team, and you must learn to work together with others to succeed.
Sports are a great way for kids to build social skills, realize how important team work can be, and also learn the meaning of fighting with all you have.
Sports prepare my children for life by learning group cooperation, self-motivation, to realize you can’t win every time and to be gracious in defeat as well as when winning. 🙂 Thank you.
I think sports gives them disciple, teaches them hard work and team work.
I really see it as helping them work together with others. I think it teaches them that it’s okay to need help and to ask for it. I also think it teaches them to do their best at everything they try. Thank you!
playing sports is a way to prepare for the game of life because in life there will be disappointments but when you keep getting back up and trying again you will eventually have success
Sports teaches my kids hard work, determination, perserverence, social interaction skills, and sportsmanship. It gives them a sense of self-achievement, pride in themselves, and an interest in their health, making them less likely to follow other students into bad behavioral choices.
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I have always said….there is always someone better and always someone worse than you. It is how you handle that that matters!
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What I see that it teaches her, is to be a team player. It also teaches her, that even that she doesnt always win, she should enjoy playing the game.
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I think my son playing basketball teaches him teamwork and how to work hard for what you want (a win)
It teaches how people who are quite different interact in a wonderful way to create a new whole–synergy.
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That it’s preparing them to be a team player and it’s about doing your best
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sports teams focus on dependability, confidence,dedication and sportsmanship; all of which are key to succeeding in life. in youth athletics its definitely more about the core values being instilled in our youngsters early to get a good headstart on life, it’s not all about the trophies!
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I teach them its not about winning but doing their personal best.
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TEACHING A CHILD TO “NEVER GIVE UP” IN SPORTS MAKES LIFE A LOT EASIER TO HANDLE DURING THOSE HARD, DEPRESSING TIMES WE ALL FACE! kytah00@yahoo.com
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I see that it will help them see that they aren’t always going to come in first place. They will learn that life isn’t always fair. They’ll learn that mom and dad will always be there to give them hugs and help pick them up.
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I think that playing sports helps my children prepare for the future because it teaches them that hard work pays off, that you might not always win but can have pride in your efforts and that being a good sport helps make others respect and like you.
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You did a really great thing for your daughter! I do think sports helps kids learn to work together for a common goal even if there’s someone on the team (or a coach) you don’t like and of course that carries over to adulthood situations.
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They team work, fair play, sportsmanship, hard work, loyalty, and I am sure lots more
I teaches them not to give up, do their best, and work as a team.
Sports teach teamwork , discipline and that hard work pays off. All needed later in life.
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Its a great way to let them know that everything is not handed to them and that there are losers and winners and that you can be a winner as an individual or as part of a group. I also hope that it teaches them that winning is not everything and that fun is the main goal in sports.
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Playing sports teaches the teamwork, patience, the art of being humble (hopefully) and can be extremely joyous. It teaches them to work hard for what they want, but to also except that they are not perfect and may not always win, and that is okay. That is life, you just pick your self up and try again.
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Playing sports helps them deal with defeat at times. They realize they will win some and lose some, just as it is in life.
Me and my husbands coach our kids teams. So teamwork and sportsmanship is very important. You have to learn to win well and to loose well.
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I didn’t play team sports growing up and I think I missed out on something big. My husband has played soccer since the time he could walk, and I think that I’d want to teach our kids about sports through him. I love soccer because it’s cheap, easy, and accesible to all. I think that it’d teach them about stamina and sportsmanship.
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I think sports prepare children for winning and losing in life….the ups and the downs that will come their way. It also provides them a way to learn how to be a team player…that will definitely help them later in life.
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They learn teamwork, practical expectations and how to handle success and defeat.
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I firmly believe that developing a love of sports at an early age helps children become active fit adults !!
Well I read this when you first posted and had to think about my answer. Then I kept forgetting to come back and enter! My boy hasn’t done much of playing on organized teams, but what I have seen him get out of sports so far is learning new skills, feeling successful and good about his accomplishments, and having FUN!
Sports teach team work, leadership, and commitment.
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That is an easy one. Sports don’t always turn out the way that you think they should and so is life. It’s not whether you win or lose but how you play the game is what matters.
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Playing sports teaches kids to never give up, the idea of teamwork, builds self-esteem, and teaches them to set goals!
They learn how to win, how to lose, how to work as a team… they’re awesome!
i see them learning to be a team player
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I feel that after years of competitive soccer tryouts, with both good and bad outcomes, my daughter is confident and able to handle rejection as well as enjoy real success. She might be just a little better equipted to handle job interviews and the rejection that they can include.
I see my son learning teamwork, sportsmanship and that he can’t always win!
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Sports teach children sportsmanship, strategy, setting personal goals and physical exercise.
by giving them an area to get out energy while learning to deal with other people
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I see playing sports teaches my kids how to work as a team
Sports teach discipline, exercise, humility, and graciousness
i believe it teaches team work and determination which is important in real life
My kid earned a 2nd degree black belt in Tae Kwon Do. I credit the discipline he learned there with his ability to set goals, focus, and his high level of achievement–he will graduate medical school with honors this coming May.
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I see playing sports, as preparing my grandchildren for the game of life by teaching them to be a team player, to give it their all and to work for what they want.
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Sports teaches my kids how to play on a team and be a good team member.
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It teaches them how to handle winning and losing, getting along with others, following directions and teamwork. All things they will need to get along in this world.
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Playing sports teaches them how to get along with different personalities and people from different backgrounds which is importatnt in life.
i see them learning good sportsmanship, which translates off the field with the way they treat their friends.
We’ve learned so much from playing sports. The boys have learned that they can’t just go out and play, but practice makes perfect. We have learned not only about being a team player, but also that watching the scoreboard is not the important part, but doing your best and having fun.
I think playing in sports helps kids learn to get along with all kinds of different personalities.
Sports teaches them to learn from their mistakes and to keep on trying.
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My kids learn what it is to be a team from playing soccer. I see them growing every week.
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learning to gracefully accept disappointment
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think it teaches them good conduct
I believe that sports teach kids about working hard to achieve goals, as well as teamwork!
They learn to take the good with the bad and that you don’t always win and that is true in all parts of life
I think sports help teach children collaboration and dedication. These are skills that they will use in life and future jobs.
good sleep, nutrition and attitude whether win or lose — in life always
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I think in lots of ways, sports are a metaphor for life. You learn that to succeed you must work for it and sometimes things don’t go as you planned.
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Playing sports helps kids be part of a team- an important aspect in the game of life (marriage, employment, etc). It also teaches good work ethic- you need to put in the work (training, practices) to see the results in the game.
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Our older son is 5 years old & has autism. We are members on the YMCA & they have a special program for kids with disabilities call Full Circle. Full Circle has given our son the opportunity to take swimming lessons & now soccer. Participating in these sports has given him more confidence, made him more active & most of all, put a big smile on his face.
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playing sports teaches kids about trying their hardest to do their best. it helps with teamwork, persistance and perseverance, and keeps them active and fit!
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It teaches them to be team players and the benefits of working hard.
I think it teaches them social skills and empathy.
I try to encourage him to be a team player.stay hydrated, rest properly
It has taught them discipline and how to be a good sport.
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As preparing my kids for life and in relation to sports, I think that by us encouraging them and praising them even if they loose, teaches them to do their best, but accept that loosing isn’t everything. It also teaches them how to be accepting and understanding of theirselves and others.
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Sports prepares them for life by showing them the importance of leadership and team work. It helps them learn how to set and accomplish goals. It also shows them how staying active and fit will keep you strong and improve brain function.
Oh definately desipline and team work!
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I love sports and always consider it as a team work. By learning and enjoying the process, it’s a great and priceless lesson to prepare young kids for the game of life.
My kids don’t do sports per say, but they do compete as part of a high school marching band. Anyone who doesn’t think this qualifies as an athletic endeavor hasn’t watched these kids practice or seen them at a competition going head to head with other amazing bands! Being a part of any “team” whether it be a sports team or a cheer squad or marching band teaches discipline, commitment, time management, teamwork, leadership skills, perseverance, and how to deal with disappointment/loss. Each and every one of these skills are important for later life. Colleges recruit kids who are seriously involved in sports/band activities b/c they know that these kids have already learned much about what it takes to be successful in life.
I played sports and my children are playing. I believe it teaches them patience, learning to practice something over and over, discipline, and to work with others.
One important lesson is to accept defeat…you don’t win every time, but you learn from it and get better next time. Another is to never give up…tenacity is incredibly important. Even if your goal is elusive, you keep going and trying, hopefully instilling your body and mind with new strategies and new ways of creative thinking.
I never played sports and it ruined me. I’m completely anti-social and hang out on the internet all day. My daughter loves softball, volleyball and dance. My son loves football. They both hunt and fish. I can safely say they will be much more ’rounded’ than me.
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Sports teaches kids how to work with others as a team, discipline, working towards a goal and learning how to deal with disappointment.
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I think sports helps kids to learn how to be a part of a team and how to work hard to achieve your goals.
Playing sports teaches kids about discipline, team work, hard work, working towards goals and to practice their craft.
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playing sports prepared kids for jobs and careers by showing them that sometimes things are not going to always go their way, by showing them teamwork and dedication
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I think sports teaches them how to work as a team, which is important in today’s workplace and will be in the future.
I was the oldest and only girl in my family having three younger brothers. I grew up playing, and watching sports. I was a tom boy and never was into that whole girly thing. Being the mother of 5 kids who were all very unique in their own way the one thing that I instilled in them consistently was the love of sports! My oldest son Ryan started to play baseball when he was six or seven and one of the funniest memories I have of Ryan playing baseball behind Southampton Rd School in Westfield at on of his first practices was him being out in the outfield (left field so to speak) not paying attention to the game what so ever to the game but scooping up dirt into his glove and having the time of his life watching it fly all around him! Me being the freak mother I was mortified that he was not pay attention! When he entered the 4th grade he started football (which he followed in the foot steps of his Uncle Mike who he so admired!) His love and dedication for the sport was like nothing I have ever seen. To this day I believe a strong part of who Ryan is and the work ethic he has today comes from all the time spent on the football field. We moved to Belchertown when Ryan was finishing the 6th grade and the town did not have a football team. So he decided to try soccer. Which he picked up easily as he was a natural athlete. Although he suffered a broken ankle playing soccer which he never was injured playing football? When he entered the 9th grade Belchertown HS started a football team. The first year all they really did was play scrimmages then starting in 10th they played games that counted and traveled to other HS. His senior year he and his team had an undefeated season and won the HS super bowl! One of the proudest moments in my life but more importantly his!
Nicole who was the “girly girly” daughter that I so was not, was not so into the sports thing. She was a dancer and started at the age of 2 and went on until the 7th grade. She was so cute out there shaking her little booty and introducing me to something I never pictured my self doing sitting through the 5 hour recital crying like a baby watching my little girls 2 minutes of fame up on the stage! When Nicole went into the Williston Northampton School she was required to play a sport each semester and for a girly girly I give her all the credit and for getting out there and trying new things. She played soccer, basketball, lacrosse which she realized were not her thing. She ran cross country which she loved and also found a love in the sport tennis which she still enjoys today!
Luke and Hannah my little Irish twins being so close in age, I signed them up for things together. We started with a mommy and me gymnastics. Then when they got to school age they got into soccer. They both have a love for the sport and had to be evaluated this past year to be placed on a team! They both ended up on great teams which are perfect fit for them. I swore that I was going to be a calm parent on the side lines and not yell and scream and that worked out pretty good until their first games! Luke has recently gotten into lacrosse which his uncle Mike coaches and he was able to go to camp at Tufts University this past summer and learn so many new skills. He developed such a love for thee sport. Which I know nothing about so I look forward to learning with him! He is always laughing at me when I try to ask him about certain moves and their names.
To sum this all up I think sports are a vital part in a child’s up bring. It keeps them moving and keeps them healthy. It helps them develop new friendships and most importantly it helps them how to win and loose gracefully which will help them be successful in their lives!
I hope you enjoyed reading this it was a nice trip down memory lane for me!
God Bless,
Joanne
My three older kids are involved in sports and have been since they were 5. Each year has been different for them but, overall, they learn to get along with others and to work together toward a common goal. This is a skill they will need in the workforce often. They also learn to support others, even when they are not making the key plays to win. As adults, it is important to understand how to help others along the way and not be too focused on yourself. Working as members of a team has helped to instill that. Finally, the fact that winnning isn’t everything has been a major lesson. Knowing that being a good sport is far more important than being a star. In their adult lives, I hope they transfer that to being good people and making good choices along the way.